Orgasms can significantly contribute to sexual well-being, and it is natural to desire them. However, a recent study indicates that a considerable number of women do engage in faking orgasms, with their motivations varying widely. The research, published in the Journal of Sex Research, sheds light on the reasons why women are more inclined to feign orgasms compared to men.

What the study found

According to the study, approximately 13 percent of both men and women reported currently faking orgasms, while 28 percent admitted to having done so in the past but no longer do. Additionally, 51 percent stated they have never faked an orgasm. The researchers analyzed data from 11,541 participants across six European nations to explore the prevalence and reasons behind faking orgasms.

Women were more likely to pretend than men

Among those currently faking orgasms, 8.59 percent were men, whereas 18.11 percent were women. In terms of past behavior, 18.74 percent of men and 34.41 percent of women reported having faked orgasms. Of the 51 percent who claimed to have never faked an orgasm, 65.79 percent were men, and 36.41 percent were women.

The researchers noted, "We found that being a woman, identifying as homosexual, having a greater number of lifetime sexual partners, and having children were associated with a higher likelihood of faking orgasms."

Who fakes orgasms more and why

The study also revealed that an individual's relationship status and the use of sex toys influenced the likelihood of faking orgasms. Those in open relationships were less likely to have faked orgasms compared to individuals in long-term relationships. Furthermore, those who frequently used sex toys were more prone to mislead their partners during sexual encounters. The researchers concluded that individuals who faked orgasms reported lower satisfaction levels regarding their relationship status, sexual experiences, and overall life satisfaction compared to those who had ceased faking orgasms.

The study revealed that the act of faking orgasms is linked to diminished levels of sexual, relational, and overall life satisfaction. Given that approximately 40 percent of participants admitted to having faked orgasms at some point, this finding indicates that the phenomenon warrants further investigation due to its potential effects on individual happiness and well-being, according to study author Silvia Pavan.

Why did they stop faking it?

Regarding the reasons for ceasing the practice of faking orgasms, both men and women cited enhanced communication with their partners and the development of a more fulfilling sexual relationship. However, it was noted that men who stopped faking were more inclined to have resolved the underlying issues or to have ceased sexual activity altogether, while women predominantly chose to live without orgasms, feeling no longer compelled to engage in faking.

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