Engaging in a relationship with someone who exhibits insecurity can be quite challenging, often leading to a dynamic where one partner consistently offers emotional and physical support to the insecure individual. Meanwhile, the person receiving this support may struggle with feelings of inadequacy stemming from their low self-esteem. Conversely, dating a secure partner, as noted by dating coach Sabrina Zohar, presents a distinctly different experience.

What is it like to date someone secure?

 In an Instagram post, Sabrina, the host of The Sabrina Zohar Show podcast, discussed the experience of dating a secure partner. She stated, “Dating someone secure is a distinct experience—because it truly is different. There are no mixed signals, no games of uncertainty, and no need for pursuit. Instead, you find consistent effort, transparent communication, and emotional safety. Initially, if you are accustomed to unpredictability, it may seem dull; however, it is not dull—it is healthy.”

What secure love feels like

In the post, Sabrina shared a few ways in which dating a secure person can feel different and healthy.

1. They don't make you question where you stand - they make you feel safe, wanted, and valued.

2. They make you seen and heard without begging for it.

3. When they say they'll do something, they actually f***ing do it. Words and actions align.

4. They don't need you to chase them to feel loved. They're steady, reliable, and show up because they want to.

5. You can trust them without anxiety eating you alive.

6. You can be yourself around them without fearing them leaving.

7. Secure partners don't just love you – they make loving them feel safe, too.

In the end, the dating coach advised that it is better to stop craving the chaos and start embracing the calm when getting into a relationship.

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