The relentless pursuit of staying ahead of trends, achieving high academic performance, and projecting confidence often motivates teenagers. They are under the impression that embodying perfection will foster friendships and draw attention to themselves. Nevertheless, a recent study indicates that the quest for perfection may alienate others. Engaging in meaningful dialogues with peers can provide teenagers with an opportunity to alleviate the pressure associated with the need for perfection.

Findings of the study:

The research involved 239 adolescents aged 13 to 19, with 72 per cent of the participants being female. These individuals were requested to fill out a set of four questionnaires from October 2017 to November 2021. The purpose of the questions was to assess perfectionistic self-presentation, experiences of relational victimization, and the reception of pro-social behaviours.

The findings indicated that adolescents often strive to project an image of perfection to their peers by highlighting their accomplishments and concealing their genuine feelings. Consequently, the study concluded that the pursuit of perfectionism can lead to social isolation.

Signs of perfectionism and social disconnect:

The research aimed to explore the concealed costs that adolescents incur due to their incessant pursuit of perfection. It highlighted various indicators that parents and caregivers should recognize in their teenagers, which reflect the pressure to maintain an image of perfection at all times.

Suppression of emotions: Adolescents frequently conceal their feelings of anger, distress, and frustration, even in situations where expressing these emotions would be appropriate.

Inability to accept compliments: A significant indicator of perfectionism is the difficulty in accepting praise or compliments, as they feel they have not yet achieved the level of perfection required to deserve such recognition.

Reluctance to seek assistance: Teenagers who are driven by the desire for perfection often find it challenging to request help or collaboration from others.

Minimization of effort: They tend to downplay the hard work they invest, presenting their achievements as if they were accomplished effortlessly.

Avoidance of vulnerability: These individuals often shy away from showing vulnerability to others, fearing it may result in rejection or judgment.

Risk avoidance: They tend to avoid engaging in activities that they perceive may expose them to the possibility of failure.

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