Do you and your partner find comfort in silence? Does the need to engage in conversation at all times not create discomfort for either of you? A recent study suggests that this may indicate a healthy relationship.

The adage that silence is golden holds true in the context of relationships as well. Research conducted by scholars at the University of Reading indicates that experiencing moments of silence with your partner can be indicative of a strong emotional bond. This study, published in the journal Motivation and Emotion, reveals that sharing quiet moments with a significant other may reflect a level of emotional intimacy.

The study

The researchers undertook four studies to examine the influence of silence and its underlying motives on the quality of relationships among couples. In the course of the research, one group of participants was instructed to reflect on a recent incident, considering its frequency, its emotional impact, and ultimately, its effect on their overall relationship satisfaction.

Motives for silence

In an effort to explore the motivations behind instances of silence, participants were presented with several options, including the influence of their significant other desiring silence, the fear of provoking anger in their partner by speaking, the use of silence as a form of punishment, or the intention to appreciate quiet moments together.

The findings revealed that the underlying motivation for silence was indicative of the relationship's health. While silence stemming from hostility or malice fostered negative emotions within the relationship, the silence that occurred naturally or was motivated by intrinsic factors was linked to feelings of intimacy, closeness, tranquillity, and connection. In the latter scenario, participants reported higher levels of relationship satisfaction.

The authors of the study emphasized the significance of silence and nonverbal communication, stating, “Consider two exchanges between romantic partners: They look into each other’s eyes, sharing intimacy and mutual understanding, or a glance instead expresses judgment and displeasure as now they achieve a shared understanding that one partner has let down the other. In both instances, nothing is said, yet much is communicated.”

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