The insights gained through experience are invaluable. Content creator Shree, known on Instagram as Shreeum, has posted a video detailing the '11 lessons' she has acquired over a decade of dating, offering viewers a wealth of dating knowledge. In her caption, she humorously noted, “My resume says serial girlfriend on it so you all better take this seriously... thank you very much…”

Individuals frequently acquire significant lessons that can enhance their future relationships, and Shree's reflections struck a chord with many. One commenter expressed, “10 years of dating wisdom in 11 tips? Love this crash course!” Another remarked, “I might cry; it feels like my older sister is giving me advice.”

‘If their ex-girlfriend reaches out to you…’

What insights did Shree share regarding her experiences with dating as she discussed the intricacies of contemporary relationships? Continue reading to discover her thoughts:

1. Sacrifice and compromise are fundamentally distinct concepts. If you find yourself needing to alter your core personality to maintain a relationship, it is likely that you are with the 'wrong individual.'

2. If your partner criticizes aspects of yourself that you genuinely appreciate—such as being 'too loud,' 'too brash,' or having 'too bold a style'—this indicates an unsuitable relationship. It is advisable to leave.

3. If you find yourself criticizing your partner for qualities they cherish that you do not appreciate, it would be best to allow them to move on; please consider ending the relationship.

4. If you dislike any of their friends and feel out of place, it is a clear sign that you do not belong in that situation. It is time to exit.

5. If their friends caution you that the relationship is unhealthy and that the individual may require assistance, heed their warnings. Depart!

6. Should their former partner reach out to you expressing, 'I am a little troubled because of this man,' take heed from personal experience and believe them.

7. If neither of you can find humor during an argument, and if it is impossible to prioritize each other over your egos at times, then that person is not meant for you.

8. If your close friends and family disapprove of them, it is essential to reassess the relationship.

9. When you begin dating someone, focus on '10 reasons why you appreciate them' rather than '10 reasons why they should love you.'

10. If they do not value your work or consistently bring negativity into your life, they are not the right partner for you. Your ideal partner should support you even on days when you struggle to believe in yourself.

11. You would prefer to sleep alone in your bed rather than feel isolated while lying next to someone.

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