In contemporary society, individuals often hastily enter into relationships, quickly moving past initial dates to assess superficial compatibility and readily granting approval. This expedited method of defining the relationship, or opting for ambiguity without labels, accelerates the process of genuinely understanding one another. Consequently, this may lead to misunderstandings later on due to a lack of clarity regarding the connection established in the early stages. Therefore, it is essential to engage in a sufficient number of dates to evaluate whether both parties are truly compatible.

Carleigh Ferrante, a relationship coach known for her insights on dating and relationships, recently took to Instagram to outline six types of dates that are essential to experience before formalizing a relationship.

6 dates before you become exclusive

These are the 6 dates Carleigh shared, along with her preferred date setting for each date type:

1. The screener date: Also, you first date, when your only goal should be to determine if this is someone you're interested in getting to know better. I prefer drinks, coffee (but needs to be a place with a vibe), or a walk with coffee or ice cream.
2. The vibey date: Once you've met in real life and both decide you're interested, it's time to start actually getting to know each other and feeling out the chemistry and the connection. I like doing another date or skipping a meal.
3. The dinner date: You need a few meal dates! I'm always surprised by the different things I notice/ learn about a person in a restaurant setting than in a bar. I also love learning the types of restaurants they like going to and how they order.
4. The activity date: My favourite kind of date and so helpful not only for getting to know someone but also for building a deeper connection! Think pickleball, darts, mini golf, shuffleboard, etc.
5. The education date: Hear me out; learning together is literally proven to bond people! I'm not saying you have to take a math class together, but how about a cooking class, a trip to a museum or a trivia date?
6. The friend date: Potentially controversial opinion, but you should meet at least a few friends before DTR (defining the relationship). It helps to see how someone acts around their friends and how they show up around yours. Plus, it could tell a lot about what a relationship with them would be like (if they're very social.)

Key takeaway

According to the six types of dates outlined by Carleigh, it is clear that each date should be purposeful rather than arbitrary. Assessing the overall atmosphere is crucial. As your dates unfold with a clear intention, you gain a deeper understanding of compatibility on multiple levels. A date transcends mere casual interactions filled with momentary thrills; it represents a gradual development of your relationship.

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