Adulthood is full of responsibilities, from chasing deadlines on weekdays to finishing up chores and running errands on weekends. Amid all this, catching up with friends, even by text takes a backseat. People blame their texting habits- they don't know how to initiate a conversation other than the basic hi or hello, or sometimes don't know what to text back or talk about.

Addressing this issue of how to keep up with friends as someone who has bad texting skills, Genny Diehl, dating coach as described by her IG bio, proposes an unconventional, yet convenient way. She puts this as an efficient way to keep up with long-distance friends especially.

No excuse for being a ‘bad texter’

Genny explained that there’s no excuse in 2025 for being a bad texter. Even if texting isn’t your strong suit, the key is making an effort to stay connected. Bad texting habits often include not replying to messages for days, unintentionally ghosting, or going long periods without checking in.

In 2025, many digital tools at our disposal can help someone stop their bad texting habits with their friends. Genny mentioned one such tool that may help.

Use ‘Google Calendar’

Genny suggested utilizing Google Calendar or a similar calendar application to effectively manage daily responsibilities. While it is often employed for work-related tasks, it can also be beneficial for personal life management. This tool can facilitate the scheduling of catch-up sessions with friends.

She explained, “Whenever I am on a phone call catching up with a friend and they mention an upcoming event, whether it be a date they are looking forward to or test results they are awaiting, I immediately open Google Calendar and create a reminder to follow up with them at the appropriate time. For instance, if a friend has a date next Tuesday, I will set a reminder for the following Wednesday to text them and inquire about how it went.”

Additionally, she mentioned that for significant events, such as a friend receiving a promotion, she would also create a reminder and send flowers to celebrate the occasion.

By adopting this practice, friendships can thrive through regular check-ins, even amidst hectic schedules. Genny noted that this approach has made her a more thoughtful and caring friend, and these consistent interactions have facilitated smoother conversations.

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