Certain relationships possess the strength to endure throughout a lifetime, primarily due to the ongoing commitment from both individuals and their mutual desire to remain united. While we do not claim to be experts in relationships, it is important to recognize that there is no singular formula for sustaining a relationship, as it encompasses numerous interdependent factors. Relationship coach, podcaster, and author Jillian Turecki emphasizes that while one should "never chase anyone," there are valid reasons to consider giving someone an opportunity.

'Your values are aligned'

Aligned values are one such reason. In her recent Instagram post, Turecki outlines ten compelling reasons to give someone a chance:

⦿ You feel secure in expressing your true self around them

⦿ They exhibit generosity, kindness, and reliability

⦿ You share enjoyable experiences together

⦿ You have a mutual understanding of what constitutes a fulfilling life

⦿ You feel a sense of acceptance from them

⦿ You do not frequently provoke each other

⦿ Your communication is effective

⦿ Your values are in harmony

⦿ You experience attraction towards them

⦿ You appreciate their presence

How to let go

Regarding the importance of letting go, she advises, “Never chase anyone. A significant aspect of self-care is to cease seeking the attention of those who are emotionally unavailable. Instead, redirect that energy towards fostering a deeper relationship with yourself, ensuring that you do not settle for individuals who do not fully choose you.”

Jillian further asserts, “The reality is that individuals often invest excessive time analyzing those who are emotionally unavailable, rather than focusing on moving away from them. Compatibility is essential for a successful relationship, and at the heart of compatibility lies a shared belief in what constitutes a great relationship and a fulfilling life. If you cannot reach an agreement on these fundamental aspects, you may enjoy a thrilling adventure together, but you will struggle to build a meaningful life in tandem.”

She further remarked, "A crucial lesson I have learned regarding love is the importance of letting go. If an individual feels that their happiness lies elsewhere, I will not impede their pursuit. I refuse to complicate my life by attempting to persuade someone to remain in my life. If you choose to stay, let it be because you genuinely wish to and have made that decision. It is essential that we actively choose one another and our relationship on a daily basis."

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